Sometimes a feeling of bondage can be a lovely feeling if you only let go and see it as your safety net and not as something to bind you and constrict you. I look at people Bungee jumping or going on a roller coaster ride and it seems so much like life. What we think sometimes as a constricting restrictive relationship is infact our safety net. The cords around your ankle are infact what will keep you from going headlong into a very painful situation.
All it takes is a little ‘faith’ and ‘vulnerability’………one needs to subjugate our will to the will of someone else…….we think we are giving up a lot……space, independence, love, our identity etc…….but infact when you become vulnerable then you don’t empower them (if your initial analysis is right about the person and if the person doesn’t turn out to be a totally wrong choice……a murderer or something perfectly horrid.)…you empower yourself.
Such a person is incapable of hurting you because hurting you would mean hurting himself and what he or she really is. People are after all not all bad….we are all shades of grey…some more white than black……..there are values like integrity ,love and respect still alive even in materialistic times like now………
This is my core and I revel in it…..Have you found yours?
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