Brian Weiss is a psychologist to reckon with.his experiences with regression therapy and astonishing revelations about the concept of rebirth or reincarnation are extremely cogent for those who wish to find answers to things that have been bothering them for sometime now.......why we get deja vu`s .....why we have feelings of familiarity with places we have never been to and instant recognition of people we feel we have known for ages now, but,having just recently met....... strange happenings and stranger feelngs......i thought i was getting eccentric and he taught me to look at my eccentricity as not just that but an enhanced awareness of what i knew deep down to be real...........
explore his works definitely.....its worth the effort.....
Some things are so familiar…..some things so loathsome. Why?
Maybe there is a colony of souls…..a family that moves together through ages and meet and leave every lifetime. That’s what he meant when he said---
“You will not always marry your most strongly bonded soulmate. There may be more than one for you because soul families travel together.You might choose to marry a less bonded soul companion, one who has something specific to teach you or something specific to learn form you.
Your recognition of a soul mate may occur later in life, after both of you are already committed to your present life families. Or your stronger soulmate connection may be your parent, or to your child, or to your sibling. Or your strongest connection may be to a soulmate who has not incarnated during your lifetime and who is watching over you from the other side like a guardian angel.
Sometimes your soulmate is willing and available. He or she might recognize the passion and the chemistry between you,the intimate and subtle bonds that imply connections over many lifetimes. Yet he or she may be toxic for you. It is a matter of soul development.
If one soul is less developed and more ignorant than the other, traits of violence, greed, jealousy, hatred and fear might be brought into the relationship. These tendencies are toxic to the more evolved soul, even if from a soulmate. Frequently rescue fantasies arise with, the thought, I can change him; I can help her grow. If he does allow you to help him , if in her free will she chooses not to learn and grow, the relationship is doomed. Perhaps there will be another chance in another lifetime, unless he awakens later in this one. Late awakenings do happen.
Sometimes soulmates decide not to get married while incarnated. They arrange to meet, to stay together until the agreed upon task is completed, and then move on. Their agendas, their lesson plans for the entirety of this life, are different, and they do not want to or need to spend all of this lifetime together.this is not a tragedy just a matter of learning. You have eternal life together, but sometimes you may ned to take separate classes together.
A soulmate who is available but unawakened is a tragic figure and can cause you great anguish.unawakened means that he or she does not see life clearly,is not aware of the many levels of existence.unawakened means not knowing about souls.usually it’s the everyday mind that prevents the awakening.
We hear the excuses of the mind all the time--- I am too young; I need more experience; I am not ready to settle down yet; you are of a different religion (region , race social status, intellectual level, cultural background, and so on…). They all excuses for souls possess none of these attributes.
The person may recognize the chemistry. The attraction is definitely there, but the source of the chemistry is not understood. It is delusional to believe that this is passion, this soul recognition and attraction will be found again with another person. You do not run into such a soulmate everyday, perhaps only one or two more in a lifetime. Divine grace may reward a good heart and a loving soul. Never worry about meeting soulmates. Such meetings are a matter of destiny. They will occur. After the meeting the free will of both the partners reigns. What decisions are made or not made are a matter of free will of choice. The less awakened make decisions based on the mind and all of its fears and prejudices. Unfortunately this often leads to heartache. The more awakened the couple is, the more the likelihood of a decision based on love. When both partners are awake ecstasy is within reach, but this is an ideal condition.”
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